Links
these are palces I frequent, so there's a highly eclectic mix here (though a strong yaoi trend.)  More as I think of them.

Directories and such:

trixie
Anime Web Turnpike

The Fan Fiction Directory  

OCAD: Online Comic Artist Directory

Slash Page Database Project

Aestheticism

Web comics/manga:
Eversummer Eve
Your Wings Are Mine
Tei & Riki
Flipside
Val & Laren
Affinity Uncertain
Kagerou
Lucid Figment: Slanted Mind
Lean on Me
Cozy Paper
Sketch of Love

Fiction sites:
Magical Intrigue
White Cat


Other sites:
Animate Ohio State (My anime club, I'm showings chair)
Kiila's Store of Confusion (my sister)
PlanetOut
Recipe Source
List of Anime Television Series